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Raising a Well Behaved Fun Loving Teenager – Teenage Parenting 101
Posted by Norbert Georget in About Teenagers, Communication, Disciplining, Main Blog Posts, Parenting Tips on August 8th, 2010
Raising your teen doesn’t have to be an ordeal (for either of you ). You CAN learn how to enjoy a calm, peaceful, and fulfilling relationship with your teen. The ultimate method in Positive Parenting….
If you wish you knew the secrets of raising an obedient, happy, and polite teen…
…if you wish you could put an end to the arguments, anguish, and stress your teenager is causing in your home…
…or if you just wish you could get them to clean their room and fill the car with gas every now and then…
Teenage Parenting 101 <=== Click Here
Then you’re going to want to lock the door, take the phone off the hook, and read this page carefully.
Here’s the story….
Waltons… Or Simpsons?
Interesting question. Whether your family is like the Waltons, the Simpsons or the Bundys…
Whether you’re living in the thirteen hundreds, the eighteen hundreds or the twenty-first century, it’s never easy raising a family.
Each and every one of us though will have something in common with the mythical characters and our counterparts of yesteryear.
To go from baby to toddler to mature adult, there’s one stage all kids will definitely need to go through regardless of anything else, and that’s adolescence.
Or in other words, the teenage years. Dun-da-DAH! This is when you’re supposed to hear the music from the movie ‘Psycho‘ echoing in your head.
Okay, maybe it’s not that bad.
But ask yourself this question: is your family closer to the Waltons…or to the Simpsons?
Teenage Parenting 101 <=== Click Here
Which Teen Is Yours?
The anguished teenager, the rebellious teenager, the bookworm, the go getter, the jock, the cheerleader, the nerd, the mixed up one who’s not popular but has the potential…the list of teenage stereotypes is practically endless, and if you look hard enough you’ll always find a teenager that will suit one of these stereotypes.
If you look harder still though, you’ll see that some facet of their personalities will fit each and every one of these stereotypes.
So what do you do then?
Raising a teen is hard enough, if you don’t know what mold they fit into how can you proceed any further?
That’s easy really.
And answering that question is what led Vanessa Thomas to start doing the research and coming up with the answers to her own kids problems.
In the process she learned a lot of things that can be helpful to any parent struggling with a difficult (or soon-to-be- difficult teen).
She wrote all about her triumphs and strategies to parenting teenagers to becoming well behaved fun loving teenagers in her new book called….
Teenage Parenting 101 <=== Click here for more info.
It comes in an ebook and audio book form.
In her book, Teenage Parenting 101, you’ll learn:
===> You don’t have to spend alot of money and buy your kids “Stuff” to have them turn out right.
===> You won’t need to try out any weirdo, new-age, wacko parenting stuff.
===> How you can avoid the big problems of drugs and sex.
===> It can be easier than you ever suspected to raise great kids.
Teenage Parenting 101 <=== Click here
She put all this information into a fast-reading, easy-to-follow ebook (electronic book) you can download in mere seconds from now.
Once you get a copy of this book and follow its instructions…
Your Friends Will Be Astounded
By The Change In Your Teen
Maybe your friends are accustomed to nodding wisely, clucking about how tough you have it with your teen.
They might give you lip service about how sorry they are that you’re having problems with your children.
You and I both know that in their secret heart, they are thinking, “That could never happen to my child.”
Imagine how amazed they’re going to be when your kid does a complete turn-around, thanks to what you learn in Vanessa Thomas’s book.
Teenage Parenting 101 <=== Click here
It’s about 100 pages of nothing but the solid, useful truth.
And when I say useful, I mean it!
… Just Some Of What You’ll Learn
In Teenage Parenting 101
Here’s just a little taste of what’s inside this book (which you can be reading in less than 2 minutes from now if you want)…
===> The teenage “identity crisis” - why it happens, and what you can do about it. (page 18)
===> Rebels without a clue… it’s wired into teens to rebel. But they often don’t even know why. How you can cope. (p. 19)
===> Communicating across the chasm. Simple ways you can bridge the age gap, communicate with your teen, and help them to be independent without being delinquent. (page 26)
===> The guaranteed way to keep track of your teen. Want to know who they’re with and what they’re doing? Do this, and you will always know. (page 35)
===> Facing peer pressure. Despite what your teens say, they need your help with peer pressure. You can help — if you just know how (hint: it has nothing to do with “just say no”). (page 41)
There are 3 other bonus gift items for you, plus she also has an 8 Week Unconditional Guarantee. So you can’t lose…
So if you want peace of mind in your home with your teens, along with you standing proud knowing that you did a good job with raising and developing such great fun loving teenagers, you got to check this out right now….
Teenage Parenting 101 <=== Click here
All my best,
Norbert Georget
PS. I made arrangement for you to get it at a discounted price, but only until this Saturday at midnight. So you better check it out today…
Teenage Parenting 101 <=== Click Here
Talking About Sex With Your Teenager
Posted by Norbert Georget in About Teenagers, Communication, Parenting Tips on August 2nd, 2010
Answering teen sex questions and talking about sex with your teen can be difficult, uncomfortable, embarrassing, and awkward….and that’s when it’s easy. For teens and adults, answering teen sex questions and dealing with teen sex issues can be one of the most difficult aspects of parenting. The fact is, though, that your teen probably already knows more than you could possibly imagine about sex, and what they’re really looking for from you is truth, honesty, and a sense of comfort.
Teens and kids even younger than that are exposed, not only through TV and movies but through advertisements and books and hearing kids talk in the hallways at school, to every possible sex topic. Kids can be watching the most innocuous television programming and be exposed to Viagra ads that openly discuss erectile dysfunction. If you’ve never even had the “birds and the bees” talk with your teen, that can create an entire litany of questions.
Yet teen sex and teen pregnancy are once again on the rise. In the states, the rates are increasing at a rapid rate. Experts blame the increase on the conservative right political efforts to have abstinence only education in schools. Many teens are not being taught about condoms, or are being given false information about condoms through these programs.
What your teen really needs from you is the understanding that even if both of you agree that teen sex is not something your teen should be doing and that abstinence is the best policy, that it is still possible that something could happen. Your teen needs you to arm him or her with the knowledge that using condoms does save lives, prevent STDs, and prevent unplanned pregnancy. Your teen must trust that you are the source of information that will rise above embarrassment, politics, or social pressure to be the voice of compassion, reason, and understanding.
If you have a teen, you can be guaranteed that with or without your teen’s consent, his or her body is being prepared for sexual activity. It is the way in which humans perpetuate the existence of our species…we are made to have sex. If you’re the parent of a teen, you need to be answering teen sex questions honestly and openly. Don’t stigmatize sex or make it difficult for your teen to come to you with concerns.
Since they most likely already know more than you expect, the role you play is more about building trust than actually teaching them anything about sex. Your role is to reassure them and be a safe place to turn. If you need help knowing what to say to your teen about sex, start by letting your teen know that you are there for him or her. Use opportunities like TV shows or other moments when sexual situations are portrayed to let your teen know that if he or she has questions, you’re happy to talk to them. Don’t minimize your teen’s feelings, and reassure your teen that you care. By opening the dialogue, your teen will be more likely to come to you for information than seek it from a friend at school or the internet.
Norbert Georget is an accomplished professional speaker, teen motivator, parenting expert and author of the book, No-Nonsense Parenting For Today’s Teenager – How To Feel Like A Good Parent Even When Your Teenager Hates You. You may get a FREE REPORT called No-Nonsense Parenting for the Disrespectful Teenager. All the answers you’ll need to deal with your disrespectful teenager.
New Book Eliminates The Frustrations From Parenting Today’s Teenager
Posted by Norbert Georget in About Teenagers, Communication, Disciplining, Extreme Teenager, Main Blog Posts, Medical and Illness Issues, Mixed Family, Parenting Tips on July 29th, 2010
Good parents are not parents who necessarily know it all. Good parents are parents who are willing to seek help and information when they need it in order to meet the unique needs of their teens.
Raising teenagers can be difficult at best. While it may seem like an alien life form invaded the body of your formerly sweet and lovable child, your teenager really is not that much different than the child you once knew. He or she is simply attempted to establish his or her own identity, and that means separating his or her identity from you as parent. This is a natural and normal process, and you should reassure yourself with the knowledge that it is just a short period of time in the life of your child and it will pass.
If you are having a difficult time dealing with a disrespectful, angry, or out of control teen, my new book will help you greatly with your frustrations as a parent of a difficult teenager. It’s called NO-NONSENSE PARENTING FOR TODAY’S TEENAGER – How To Feel Like A Good Parent Even When Your Teenager Hates You.
Even as teenagers, your children need and want your love. Their attitudes can make it difficult to maintain a healthy relationship. It is important to understand that as much as your teenager wants your love, he or she also wants you to respect his or her individuality and burgeoning independence. When teens feel as though they are being treated like a children, if you are being “over” protective, if you expect your teen to believe what you believe and think what you think, your teen will rebel.
If you are struggling with a teen that will not listen, lacks motivation, is having trouble getting along at home and at school, is obsessed with technology or might be dealing with an addiction problem, this book can help you right today. NO-NONSENSE PARENTING FOR TODAY’S TEENAGER – How To Feel Like A Good Parent Even When Your Teenager Hates You is a book designed to help parents navigate the landmines of bringing up teenagers in a modern world of video games, internet, and cell phones.
Teens are under an enormous amount of pressure. Parents want them to do well in school and get into a good college and make decisions about their future. Teen friends seek to confirm and uphold each others’ ideas, thoughts, and identities and encourage each other to be as independent as possible. Peers pressure each other to try new and risky things, like drinking, drugs, and sex. Learn how to approach your teen and have open conversations that lead to better relationships, more trust, and less chaos in your home.
With my new breakthrough book NO-NONSENSE PARENTING FOR TODAY’S TEENAGER – How To Feel Like A Good Parent Even When Your Teenager Hates You you will learn why discipline and choice are important concepts when raising teens. You will learn to discipline your teenager without feeling any guilt. You’ll be able to handle your disrespectful and abusive teenager without any more yelling, arguing or hard feelings. You WILL still stay sane as a parent even when you take away all privileges and your teen still tries to defy you. You’ll learn to consistently keep to your disrespectful teenager’s behavior expectations and mean it. Ultimately, you’ll bring back peace in your mind and in your home.
For more information about this great book, simply Click Here.
Preparing Your Teen For College
Posted by Norbert Georget in About Teenagers, Parenting Tips on July 27th, 2010
While you might begin thinking about your child’s college education while you are shopping for preschools, you probably won’t really start thinking about college seriously until your teen is in high school. There are definitely steps you can take to help ensure your teen has the tools to succeed in life and in college from the time your teens are toddlers.
Academic success comes from having a stable and loving home environment, encouragement and enthusiasm about learning, and regular access to books. Reading out loud to younger kids and encouraging older kids to read regularly helps ensure academic success. While the preschool your child attends probably won’t have an enormous effect on your teen’s college search, the environment you provide at home can have a direct impact.
One of the most important components of your teen’s college search is the application process, which should begin as soon as your teen starts high school. This should not be a high-pressure process; even once your teen chooses a school and course of study it’s likely to change at least once. But it is important to encourage your teen to think about his or her future and to start the college search by looking at what colleges offer courses of study that match your teen’s future career plans.
The college search is a long sometimes arduous process. Most stateside schools require minimum performance results on standardizes test scores like the SATs and the ACTs. All colleges will require a basic application and many will require supplemental applications, essays, and letters of reference.
Typically, your teen should be taking steps in the college search all through high school. In the freshman year, students take the PSAT (a preliminary SAT test that helps identify the student’s strengths). Your teen should be thinking about what subjects excite him or her and how those relate to future job possibilities.
As a sophomore, your teen should attend local college fairs hosted by the high school or local community colleges. He or she should also request catalogs and information from schools that are of interest. By the end of the sophomore year, your teen should narrow the college search by region, course of study, and other determining factors.
In your teen’s junior year, your college search can include making visits to college campuses, talking to financial aid counselors about tuition costs and available aid, and narrowing down the search to some final choices. By early October of the senior year, applications should be submitted, standardized tests should be taken, and supplemental materials should be requested, like transcripts from high school, letters of reference from teachers and coaches, and application fees.
Colleges will normally make early acceptance offers by December and regular acceptance offers by February or March, although the details of financial aid possibilities as well as scholarships might take longer to determine. Once the college search process is completed, your teen will be able to relax and enjoy the rest of his or her senior year, confident about the where he or she is headed and making plans and dreaming about the future.
Norbert Georget is an accomplished professional speaker, teen motivator, parenting expert and author of the book, No-Nonsense Parenting For Today’s Teenager – How To Feel Like A Good Parent Even When Your Teenager Hates You. You may get a FREE REPORT called No-Nonsense Parenting for the Disrespectful Teenager. All the answers you’ll need to deal with your disrespectful teenager.
The Secret of Parenting Teens
Posted by Norbert Georget in About Teenagers, Communication, Main Blog Posts, Parenting Tips on July 9th, 2010
Teenagers are the most susceptible group for succumbing to the various temptations presented to them, making parenting teens effectively even tougher. What adds to the difficulty is that most teens – even the ones who exhibit good decision making ability and reason more often than not – want nothing more than independence and the ability to make their own decisions about their lives. Teens have no capacity for understanding that even though they feel completely grown up and ready to take on the world that they are not.
Parenting teens comes with a special set of challenges – and a special set of rules. I like to tell parents that in many ways, parenting teens is a lot like parenting toddlers. In both cases, you’re dealing with strong-willed, sometimes ridiculously obstinate people who are trying very hard to establish their own personality. Toddlers are just small enough we can pick them up and put them in a playpen or lay them down to take a nap when things get really difficult. It’s not so easy with teens.
Yet there are effective ways for parenting teens that can make a difference both in your relationship and in the level of stress you’re both feeling. And really, if you’ve read my book or have been reading any of my other articles, you’ll know it’s not really much of a secret: the key to parenting teens successfully is COMMUNICATION. It’s exasperating sometimes to see a loving relationship between a parent and a teen deteriorate simply because neither side is willing to listen to what the other is saying or at the very least let go of their assumptions about what the other wants. That’s where communication comes in.
As a parent, it is okay to let down your guard and tell your teen that the reason you are involved and concerned and have rules they don’t like is because you love them, you want to keep them safe, and that you want to help guide them. The problem is that instead of telling teens how we feel as vulnerable human beings, many parents instead take a defensive attitude and resort to the “Because I said so” or “Because that’s the rule of the house” response.
The minute you’ve resorted to that, you’ve lost. If you approach your teen from the viewpoint that you support the fact that he or she is quickly growing into adulthood and should start taking on more responsibility and making more decisions about his or her own life, it can help your teen see that you are not the enemy. In fact, by “teaming up” with your teen and helping him or her to reach the goals they want to reach, you can break down the barriers between you and arrive more quickly at a new place in your relationship in which you can play the role you’re meant to play at this stage: guide and mentor.
Tear down the walls between you and your teen. Let them see that you worry about them and let them know that you love them. Loosen up the hold you have and encourage your teen’s independence. Support your teen’s individuality and desire to have his own or her own life. Only then can you begin to transform your relationship into one you can both live with.
Norbert Georget is an accomplished professional speaker, teen motivator, parenting expert and author of the book, No-Nonsense Parenting For Today’s Teenager – How To Feel Like A Good Parent Even When Your Teenager Hates You. You may get a FREE REPORT called No-Nonsense Parenting for the Disrespectful Teenager. All the answers you’ll need to deal with your disrespectful teenager.
Improving Parent – Teen Relationships In Your Family
Posted by Norbert Georget in Communication, Main Blog Posts, Parenting Tips on June 17th, 2010
Parent – teen relationships are difficult to manage at times. Parents often joke about dreading the teen years, but the joking is a sign of the real discomfort that lurks behind every thirteenth birthday and the teen relationships parents are unsure how to develop. It can be a difficult time for parents and teens, learning how to relate to each other with the new expectations and pressures that occur on both sides of the table. Parent – teen relationships are often fraught with heated emotions. Parents have difficulty handing control over to teens and teens have difficulty believing that they still need guidance and guidelines. Having teenagers definitely makes life a little more challenging.
Teenagers today have access to all kinds of knowledge – and while that knowledge gives parent – teen relationships an edge because it’s easier to see that others are experiencing the same issues and provides reassurance that both sides will survive, it also gives teens access to information that parents used to control. How, as a parent, do you manage your relationship with your teen given the access he or she has to information?
The best approach is transparency. The more direct and honest parents are with their teens, the more successful parent – teen relationships can be. Your teens are going to know about things that you did not know when you were their age. Instead of doling out information as your parents may have done with you, your role will be more of a mediator of information: it will be up to you to make sure that what information your teen is getting is followed by discussions with you that help them fit what they are seeing and learning into the larger scope of the morals and lessons you are trying to teach them.
A good example of how this can work to enhance parent – teen relationships is with movies and music. Even if you don’t allow anything but G-rated movies and music into your home, with iPods and cell phones, there is no doubt your teen will see and hear what is out there. Rather than rule with an iron fist and attempt to forbid your teen from taking part in these activities, do two things:
- Get to know the music and movies that teens are interested in so that you can make a fair judgment about the content, and
- Understand that you cannot control everything your teen sees and hears, but you can maintain open communication and help them understand that what they see and hear does not always reflect your beliefs, values, traditions, ideals, or expectations
Having frank discussions with your teens about the risks of sex, the lasting affects of drugs, the addictiveness of cigarettes and alcohol, and about treating people with respect will earn your teen’s attention and respect and improve parent – teen relationships. In study after study and survey after survey, teens are clear about what they expect from parent – teen relationships: they want the adults in their life to be straight with them, to treat them like the almost-grownup people that they are, and recognize their individuality. The more you do that, the better your relationship with your teen will be.
Norbert Georget is an accomplished professional speaker, teen motivator, parenting expert and author of the book, No-Nonsense Parenting For Today’s Teenager – How To Feel Like A Good Parent Even When Your Teenager Hates You. You may get a FREE REPORT called No-Nonsense Parenting for the Disrespectful Teenager. All the answers you’ll need to deal with your disrespectful teenager.
How To Cope With A Rude Teenager
Posted by Norbert Georget in Disciplining, Extreme Teenager, Main Blog Posts, Parenting Tips on June 11th, 2010
It seems sometimes like your child goes to bed one night as your precious little angel and wakes up the next morning as an alien being. It’s the only explanation for the rude behavior of a teenager, right? An alien invaded your child’s body when you weren’t looking.
In a way, it’s true…but it’s not aliens, it’s hormones. When puberty strikes, your teen’s rude behavior does too. There are so many different emotions and conflicts going on inside your teen that it can be difficult to cope. There are strategies you can use to help curtail your teen’s rude behavior and keep your sanity at the same time.
Whether your teen’s rude behavior comes in the form of abusive words and rude language or the sometimes more frustrating behavior of ignoring you, arguing, or talking back the first step to cutting the behavior short is to immediately address it – and not by being rude back or raising your voice or getting frustrated.
The best way to chill teen behavior is to remain calm and speak in an almost business-like manner. Tell your teen that the words or behavior they are using is unacceptable, that choosing to behave that way will result in consequences, and then follow through.
The follow through is the most important thing. If your teen’s rude behavior comes from something like using the cell phone at the table when it’s time for family dinner, take the phone. If your teen tries to keep you from getting the phone, don’t get physical; simply call the cell phone company and suspend the service for a day or two. Most teens will get the point rather quickly that the way they choose to behave will have direct and immediate consequences.
It’s important that you understand that even well behaved teens will have a bad day, say something smart, or talk back occasionally. You have to be willing to have balance. Let your teen grow and stretch his or her wings, finding his or her voice, but keep your teen from crossing the line.
As with a lot of parenting tips, the best place to begin is with the parents serving as role models for the behavior that they would like to see in children. In and out of the home, if your teen sees you using rude behavior, he or she will most likely repeat it. When you have made it clear what you consider as rude behavior then you can set the consequence that makes the most sense, either taking away the cell phone, the computer, nights out with friends, or video games.
Rude behavior and teenager sometimes seem synonymous, but they don’t have to be. You can make it clear to your teen that their own behavior dictates what privileges they will have and what level of trust you will have in them. Teenagers don’t have to be rude; set the right tone, tolerate the occasional emotional outburst, and teach them coping tools to get through one of the most tumultuous times of their lives.
It seems sometimes like your child goes to bed one night as your precious little angel and wakes up the next morning as an alien being. It’s the only explanation for the rude behavior of a teenager, right? An alien invaded your child’s body when you weren’t looking.
Norbert Georget is an accomplished professional speaker, teen motivator, parenting expert and author of the book, No-Nonsense Parenting For Today’s Teenager – How To Feel Like A Good Parent Even When Your Teenager Hates You. You may get a FREE REPORT called No-Nonsense Parenting for the Disrespectful Teenager. All the answers you’ll need to deal with your disrespectful teenager.
Talking With Your Teen About Sex
Posted by Norbert Georget in About Teenagers, Communication, Main Blog Posts, Parenting Tips on April 11th, 2010
In a recent news story, Fox News revealed that an 11 year old girl had given birth to her first child. The doctors discussed how difficult the birth was because the child’s body had not even developed enough to give birth; she did not even have enough breast tissue to be able to nurse the child. This is an extreme situation, but teen pregnancy and sexually active teens are on the rise again, making it crucial to start talking about sex you’re your teens and younger kids now.
Talking about sex with your teen is one of the toughest conversations you will ever have, but not talking about sex with your teen is even worse. Just talking to your teens about sex, about the changes their bodies will undergo, and how to protect themselves against unwanted pregnancy, AIDS, and STDs can make a huge difference in the choices they make. Arming your teen with information by talking about sex is not condoning sexual activity.
Teens are overexposed to information about sex. Their friends talk about it at school. It’s in the advertisements they see on TV. It’s all over the Internet. You cannot prevent your teen from being exposed to sexual information, but you can create an open and honest environment in which your teen can comfortable talk with you about sex and sexuality. You may not be able to control everything they see and hear, but you can make sure they have access to accurate and complete information by talking about sex and making good choices about sex decisions.
The key to talking about sex with your teen is to not panic. Sex and sexual urges are a natural part of the human condition. The more comfortable you are with sex, the easier it will be for you to talk about sex with your teens. It is important not to be overbearing or make it a big deal. Take natural opportunities, like a shared movie or an ad you both see that makes talking about sex easier.
With more than half of all teens experimenting sexually before age 16, talking about sex should start when your teens are young and the conversation should happen more than once. You can let your teen know about your personal beliefs while still letting them know the risks they take by having unprotected sex. What you should not do is threaten your teen or make black and white ultimatums. If you tell your teen that you’ll kick her out if she gets pregnant or that you will never forgive him for having sex before marriage, you create a situation where your teen will not feel comfortable coming to you for advice or to talk when he or she is under pressure to give in to sex.
Instead, when talking about sex, help your teen gain a balanced perspective about sex and his or her own sexuality. Be understanding and forthright. Teach your teen to value his or her body and treat it with respect. Answer questions and be honest. In this day and age of immediate access to an abundance of information, telling your teen about storks and birds and bees isn’t going to cut it. By being open and honest when talking about sex, your teen will respect you and listen to you and feel comfortable coming to you when they need information.
Norbert Georget is an accomplished professional speaker, teen motivator, parenting expert and author of the book, No-Nonsense Parenting For Today’s Teenager – How To Feel Like A Good Parent Even When Your Teenager Hates You. You may get a FREE REPORT called No-Nonsense Parenting for the Disrespectful Teenager. All the answers you’ll need to deal with your disrespectful teenager.
New Book Eliminates The Frustrations From Parenting Today’s Teenager
Posted by Norbert Georget in About Teenagers, Communication, Disciplining, Extreme Teenager, Main Blog Posts, Medical and Illness Issues, Mixed Family, Parenting Tips on April 8th, 2010
Good parents are not parents who necessarily know it all. Good parents are parents who are willing to seek help and information when they need it in order to meet the unique needs of their teens.
Raising teenagers can be difficult at best. While it may seem like an alien life form invaded the body of your formerly sweet and lovable child, your teenager really is not that much different than the child you once knew. He or she is simply attempted to establish his or her own identity, and that means separating his or her identity from you as parent. This is a natural and normal process, and you should reassure yourself with the knowledge that it is just a short period of time in the life of your child and it will pass.
If you are having a difficult time dealing with a disrespectful, angry, or out of control teen, my new book will help you greatly with your frustrations as a parent of a difficult teenager. It’s called NO-NONSENSE PARENTING FOR TODAY’S TEENAGER – How To Feel Like A Good Parent Even When Your Teenager Hates You.
Even as teenagers, your children need and want your love. Their attitudes can make it difficult to maintain a healthy relationship. It is important to understand that as much as your teenager wants your love, he or she also wants you to respect his or her individuality and burgeoning independence. When teens feel as though they are being treated like a children, if you are being “over” protective, if you expect your teen to believe what you believe and think what you think, your teen will rebel.
If you are struggling with a teen that will not listen, lacks motivation, is having trouble getting along at home and at school, is obsessed with technology or might be dealing with an addiction problem, this book can help you right today. NO-NONSENSE PARENTING FOR TODAY’S TEENAGER – How To Feel Like A Good Parent Even When Your Teenager Hates You is a book designed to help parents navigate the landmines of bringing up teenagers in a modern world of video games, internet, and cell phones.
Teens are under an enormous amount of pressure. Parents want them to do well in school and get into a good college and make decisions about their future. Teen friends seek to confirm and uphold each others’ ideas, thoughts, and identities and encourage each other to be as independent as possible. Peers pressure each other to try new and risky things, like drinking, drugs, and sex. Learn how to approach your teen and have open conversations that lead to better relationships, more trust, and less chaos in your home.
With my new breakthrough book NO-NONSENSE PARENTING FOR TODAY’S TEENAGER – How To Feel Like A Good Parent Even When Your Teenager Hates You you will learn why discipline and choice are important concepts when raising teens. You will learn to discipline your teenager without feeling any guilt. You’ll be able to handle your disrespectful and abusive teenager without any more yelling, arguing or hard feelings. You WILL still stay sane as a parent even when you take away all privileges and your teen still tries to defy you. You’ll learn to consistently keep to your disrespectful teenager’s behavior expectations and mean it. Ultimately, you’ll bring back peace in your mind and in your home.
For more information about this great book, simply Click Here.
Turning Your Child Into a Mature Teenager
Posted by Norbert Georget in About Teenagers, Communication, Main Blog Posts, Parenting Tips on April 2nd, 2010
Somewhere around the time your child turns 8, 9, 10, or 11, he or she will discover that you are not the superhuman you always seemed to be. You will fall off the pedestal and become a human being with flaws, just like everyone else in the world. This is a devastating but necessary moment in every child’s life…it’s when they take their first steps toward recognizing themselves as separate individuals from you. It’s the beginning of the growing up process, one which will hopefully result in your child becoming a mature teen and a responsible, decent adult.
The struggle, of course, is getting from the point where they recognize you are simply human to the point where they are a mature teen without both of you tearing your hair out and disowning each other. In some families, this seems to happen naturally and easily, but it takes a lot more work that it might seem to from the outside to raise a responsible, mature teen, but there are some things you can do to help both of you get there in one piece.
Mutual Respect
Lots of parents complain that their teens are disrespectful, but earning a teen’s respect starts with you showing them how to be respectful. That means being respectful of your teen. It’s not easy; even a mature teen can be mouthy and critical and difficult to handle, but if you operate from a point of respect for your teen as an individual who is allowed to have different opinions and beliefs from yours, you will be helping to bring out the mature teen in your child. When you show respect, it’s easier to expect respect too.
Open, Honest Communication
Hiding behind your fears and insecurities will not help you raise a mature teen. No, it’s not easy to talk about sex, love, dating, life, choices, lying, homework, friends, driving, or anything else with the teen who is at an age where he or she feels invincible and omnipotent, but the more open and truthful you are with your teens the easier it will be for your teen to talk to you about the tough stuff. If they don’t talk to you about the challenges they face in life, you won’t have the opportunity to help guide them through each new challenge and help them learn how to handle it on their own.
Letting Go
It’s easy to just keep thinking you have to hold your teen’s hand every step of the way, but in truth, if you want to raise a mature teen, you have to let go and let your teen do some things independently, even if you can see that the end result will be something you would have wanted them to avoid. Letting go gradually can help make the process easier, but letting your teen have the ability to make choices and decisions while you are still there to help them deal with the consequences is an important part of raising a mature teen.
Keeping the Faith
There are days when you will wonder what that strange teenage being did with your son or daughter. Raising teens is difficult, and it does often feel like the child you gave birth to has been replaced by something much more terrifying. You and your teen will survive.
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